I’ve got this page for the longest time.
It started off as a canvas for me to write things down. Then later, it turned into a “blogger/influencer” wanna be kinda style. That flopped badly as I was just not the girly girl next door nor was I effortlessly drop dead gorgeous. (I don’t have a “7 steps to wash my face before I sleep” routine)
So this blog died for a year or so as I don’t see the reason why I should force myself to be someone I am not.
But recently, I was encouraged to reopen this blog by a certain someone. Let’s call her L.
Someone I saw as so perfect in her own rights but she can’t seem to see it. Then it dawn on me. I have been talking to so many amazing girls, who seem to be stuck in the same few problem!
So here goes nothing!
As much as this is not gonna be an Aunt Agony blog, I would like to do what little I can to type down concepts and mental processes I wished someone told me when I was younger and struggling.
I guess the reason so many amazing girls I talk to kinda get and understand these concept is because I am dyslexic (thank God for spell check!). I think in a web/big picture and in visuals. It helps that I am a short film producer and script writer as well!
Who knows? Maybe one day, the blog will transcend into videos and skits? But till that day comes, feel free to comment questions you have.
OH and guess what? Why should you even listen to me?
- I am 31 this year and in a 8 years relationship
- Because of my job, I hang with so many talented and amazing young woman and they tend to tell me ALOT about what they are going through. So even though I am older then the internet, I am still very much in touch with the ground
- I flew all over the world for about 3 years while working for a prestigious airline as a flight attendant. All that time I was attached and had every chance to cheat since I was out of the country and stay in five star hotels. Stage is set, but why did I not stray?
- The most important reason is, thank you L for coming up with this, “I DATE A PHOTOGRAPHER AND HE HANGS OUT WITH MODLES ALL THE TIME!” So how will I be okay with that?!
This is a journey for me and I hope it will be one for you as well.
I cannot guarantee that problems will be solved or everyone will have “happily ever afters” but I hope at the very least, please, know that you are loved! That you know you are not going through this alone!